By Denen Nyakuma
Dear Wonder Daddy,
It’s been Nine months since you left us, and not a day goes by without me feeling your absence deeply. I find myself flooded with memories of our time together and overwhelmed by the emotions that come with missing you.
I’m sorry for not visiting your grave as often as I should, but i am glad i visited you today. I know how much you valued family and the importance of staying connected, even in spirit. It’s not that I’ve forgotten about you or don’t miss you terribly every day—it’s just that life sometimes gets overwhelming, and I let time slip away without making the effort to come see you.
Please know that my absence doesn’t reflect my love for you or the impact you’ve had on my life. You were, and always will be, the guiding light in my life, and not a day goes by without me thinking of you. I cherish the memories we shared, the lessons you taught me, and the love you gave so freely
These past nine months have been a journey of healing and self-discovery for my brothers and I. Losing you has been the hardest thing we havs ever had to face, but it’s also taught us valuable lessons about life, love, and resilience. Your strength and wisdom continue to guide us through each day, even in your physical absence.
I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on the moments we shared, the laughter we enjoyed, and the lessons you imparted. Your love was unconditional, and your presence filled our home with warmth and comfort. I miss our conversations, your reassuring hugs, and the sound of your laughter echoing through the halls.
There have been moments of sorrow and grief, but there have also been moments of gratitude and acceptance. I’ve learned to cherish the memories we created and to find solace in the knowledge that you’re at peace now, free from pain and suffering.
Though you may be gone, your spirit remains with me, guiding me through life’s twists and turns. I find comfort in knowing that you’re watching over me, proud of the person I’m becoming.
Until we meet again, know that you are loved beyond measure and deeply missed.
With all my love
Denen writes from North Bank, Makurdi, Benue state
